i had a restless night. To give you some background.....I recently was abandoned by my husband of almost 27 years now, he left over a year ago.
I managed to fall asleep for about 20 minutes, and I had a dream that he was laying down...white pillow, white sheet, all I saw was his face, every detail, eyes closed and i was staring and his eyes opened wide...I woke up. Thank you for the input.
Hi,
The ex husband can sometimes be playing themselves or can symbolize a particular quality the two of you had shared.
Bed is you may need more rest. May be commenting on private, intimate matters. Is something keeping you up at night? Your dream may even be commenting on your dreaming life.
Pillow is a need to be comforted or a need to rest and relax. Pillow talk.
And the white sheet was on him, this is a good indication you are avoiding an issue, you are afraid of confrontation.
To see just his face this is face the issue, fact the past, face the facts, etc.
And eyes means you need to open your eyes and take a closer look at your situation. Your perception or point of view.
Hope that helps, and good dreams to you :)
I think you want for your husband to return, but you are also seeing new possibilities now that he is gone. (Watching his eyes open actually represents you seeing new possibilities.) The two things are pulling you in different directions and creating a struggle inside.
You can't control what he does at this point, so focus on the new things you see.
have you moved on?
if you haven't this could be a sign to. also the white sheet white pillow suggests he was in bed, was he sleeping? do you still have feelings for him? How people act in a dream can be feedback about interactions in a current relationship.
i would say let the dream go. try to focus on your current life and make the most of it.
Maybe you subconsciously wished he was dead and layed out. That would be my reason for dreaming that way about my exes. Or it could be wishful thinking that when his eyes opened up you hope he saw the error of his ways. It will take you time to get over this bump in your life. but you can do it.
The white means it is time to forgive. Forgive does not mean to say ok what you have done to me, it means time to let go and move on.
you miss him but you are afraid of it.
I agree with Joejorob it is telling you time to move on.
your insane!
Social Science
Thursday, April 2, 2009
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